7 Things to Avoid If You Want to Impress A Lady
Although women might be challenging to comprehend. Even if you believe you’ve cracked their code, you can find yourself befuddled all over again. We’ll talk about the three things I believe you shouldn’t do to impress a female in this article.
1. Don’t brag about how much money you have.
It’s understandable that you want to appear successful, hardworking, and capable of paying your own bills when you first meet a woman. There’s a sense of pride in feeling well compensated for what we do, especially considering how much pressure society may put on a man in our field.
2. Don’t abandon your own opinion.
You should never lose your voice. You have the right to express your opinions and feelings about life, and women have the right to examine and respond to your viewpoint. It is a basic human right to have one’s own opinion. It’s a window into your values and ideas, and it’s important to provide your possible spouse with the information they need to make an informed judgment about you. You won’t be able to fully comprehend where you stand on key issues if you dumb down your beliefs to impress a woman.
3. Shut everyone out.
Why guys believe that shutting everyone out after meeting a girl will make their relationship more successful is a mystery to me. Your friends and family make up a big part of who you are. Shutting people out won’t ensure that things with the girl will go smoothly. It’s unlikely to happen.
4. Don’t turn against your parents:
Don’t be brainwashed, gentlemen. Your parents are the most valuable inheritance you have in the world. You’ve been with them since you were conceived. Turning on them for the sake of a girl will reflect poorly on you. Always keep in mind that you will become a parent sooner or later.
5. Don’t fight with other men.
There may be occasions when you’re out together and a guy gets too aggressive with the woman you’re with. Protecting her in such a situation is a good thing as long as it doesn’t turn physical (if a situation becomes physical, call security or the police don’t try to be the hero!). If she seems to be pitting you against other men, including an ex (or two! ), it’s a whole different situation. Don’t become involved in those kinds of situations. She’s playing games with you, and you’re not going to win. She may not be mature enough for a meaningful relationship if she expects you to battle against other men to prove your love.
6. Don’t lose your sense of self.
It’s all too easy to get caught up in trying to get a girl to like you that you start adopting some of her interests. That’s okay, It is not, however, acceptable to fully change who you are to conform to her ideal boyfriend. You must be your individual. It has to be for the proper reasons if she is going to like you. What good is it if she likes you for fictitious reasons? You have to be yourself when it comes to love. Any girl who cares about you will appreciate you for who you are.
7. Don’t spend money foolishly
Of course, we’ve all seen it before. Some people may go so far as to borrow money to please a girl they aren’t married to. We’ve seen it happen all over the world, where guys go to great lengths to do heinous activities such as robbery, drug trafficking, and so on… All to impress women with money. You should keep in mind that such love does not last long. As soon as your money, which she has come to expect from you, vanishes. Guys indulging in money rituals to impress girls is one of the worst possibilities. You should have some money set aside for the future. Also, don’t make a lady your bank. You won’t get any money from her, mind you.